Save My Child!!!

Recently I noticed an ad in yahoo(God of disturbing ads, I hate this company for aggressive and stupid ads). The ad looked so catching... its some two hands coming out from a dark cell calling for help. I checked the link(hihi I never wish yahoo to get few cents for my click) it was some http://www.rescueaditya.org. 

First impression I had in mind was that it's some guy who is caught in jail or so and pleeding a country to free him. Then I read this is a kid of 10 yrs or so. Oh some country caught him mistakenly? Eagerly I went to site and started reading.

Now my shock was doubled. It's some story that this kid's mother took him away from his father. For that someone gave ad in yahoo?? Real wonder. Now it was a series of wonders.. Heights of stupidity I would love to call even though its my own feeling over it and you can say its wrong for sure. But really I felt like laughing or cry. 

A man, some Dr.Y complain that his son - aditya is being kidnapped by his mother who is "Remarks and caution: Mentally severely ill. Public must not apprehend her directly. Contact police or the nearest American Embassy. Highly violent and suicidal. Police officials must put her on 24 hour suicide watch upon apprehending her."

Then I went through the site. It was purely one sided. Parents were fighting. So US court gave equal custody of kid to both mother and father. Now having kid with her, she leave to India. So he went to court and got full custody of kid as she couldnt come and present to court. With this court order, he gave complaint in FBI and then to Indian court. Site itself complains she is dangerous and "She moved Aditya from place to place to avoid tracing. Past 18 months 

she subjected to Aditya to live in seedy hotels which she changed often." 

I don't how you guys will feel when reading something like a woman is moving place to place and living without getting traced, but really image that came to my mind is that someone is chased so much... Site shows a letter from a psycologist saying she seemed unstable and feeling his father abuse kid and attack. I don't know why this should be considered as severely metally ill :D... 

Of course I don't know... May be all these people who know her more might be knowing much.. But I felt sad for her somehow... Even though I felt no one supports her on the face of earth... may be just the claim of site. 

Only doubt I had was: A woman gets married with a man in US... of course he marries as she is fine... Have a kid also... I don't think they didn't talked before having kid. Now when kid is around 10 yrs old, she became mentally ill... that too reason is that she fears her kid will be sexually abused by his father. How a woman who was married to a man start feeling unsafe like this? And if he get to know that he is unstable, why he never tried to help her by giving some care atleast medical care? He thought of getting a proof that she is mentally unstable only when he wanted to custody of kid? I really feel she had some bad 10 yrs that made her unstable if she became one. The people behind who is so concerned that kid is not sent to school for 18 months are pleading doctors, school administrators not to allow either kid or mother to be admitted with them or never talk... Just call US people and they will come with army and take the illegal to jail.. :D Really they are not concerned whether kid is getting what he needs... In the hunt for the lady, they are making kids like more harder... Why they feel kid won't be good with her? Just the same she suspect about the father.. 

I feel if they really want kid to be fine, they should stop this stupidity and allow her to live... then kid will be going to school... some way it will be a better condition than this I guess... May not be a heaven that his father can give him... 

Really do you love the kid or want to power to have kid?

For the same cause - To make my heaven to all

I know it’s late, but still I want to write because this is staying in my mind for long... Two incidents that happened recently that hurt me. Both happened in same month.

1. China calls Dalai Lama "saboteur" of Tibet development
   
2. Mangalore pub attack (Jan 24, 2009).
   

Usually I don't look to news papers or read news papers... Somehow I have a feeling most of them are made as big news and part of their business. But somehow I saw this news and really made me feel so bad and sad... 

When I read what China called Dalai Lama, I really felt like laughing out. They saying they wanted to make an area develop and have high ways and bridges and rail. That’s why they didn't allowed the native people to live as they want :) Chinese people were considered to be having brains. Anyway its part of their politics and its 50 years that they started occupation in Tibet to make the place 'heaven'... “Making their leader exile”. Not allowing journalists or outside people to know how is the life in the 'heaven'...  - Just to allow people to have the fruit of development.. 

Few girls chased and beaten by a gang of 40 men saying they are drinking in pub. Actually it was a way to make a party known to society and start a discussion. So SriRama sena got some public attention and leaders became leaders than just gundas and became some people who are standing for some cause - "Protect culture..." - Just to save people from fruit of development.

I really felt both done by similar people and basic mentality has real similarity. 

• Both people want power
• Both try to gain the power by attacking and scaring people
• Both the suffering people won’t ever accept what power people doing to them, other than that they can't protest on their attack
• ..... List really continues...

Somehow there are some people who want to gain the power. Power over others... and gain the monetary and other benefits of power. Really sometimes I don't know what we gain from all these... May be someday I will also have power, maybe I have the power today itself and might be attacking some people. 

But this type of attack is not very rare... When Taliban impose Islam rule in Pakistan valleys and Afghanistan, suddenly one day girl kids won't be able to go to school. Taliban should allow a place where those who don't want to accept their rule to be imposed live. China is saying about making heaven. Why don't they do an election and see if any of its leaders can win over Lama? haha how many of us know any Chinese leader? I think lot more people will be knowing Lama... 

When you say about Taliban, you can't really show America as angels too. They might be true but war making them part of power too. Killing or attacking people who believe in Taliban principle is part of same agenda... "Scared whether other will eat me."

It's true we can't give everyone freedom. But why we can't have a law which gives all people more freedom which won't really curb fellow being's freedom?

Why are we here?

"Why are we here?"

This looks a very simple question and really feel like it's easy to answer this. But I feel this is one of the most dangerous question we can face any moment of life... 

Whether we are in office, whether we are in church, whether we are in pub, whether we are in hotel, really this question can really make us restless...

I felt the power of this question recently while I was on a trek. I was not expecting it be this powerful but could make me almost fall down without any power to walk too... When I started the trek I was saying this statement to friends just as a fun... "Why are we here, we could have been in Bangalore - sleeping, eating nice food etc" (other options :)) We all took it fun too... But after sometimes we are getting tiered and the thought was going deep to our minds... really felt it... At a point I saw a tree which can save me from deadly sun... So I went upto that and lyed down under it thinking whether to go or not. Now I really found its difficult to answer the question... Why are we here?... We always have a better option which we left... Some other thing rather than this... But danger is that this other thing is also under the power of the same question. So I thought how to fight against this question and whats the best answer.. Atlast I found a suitable one which is also so vaugue... 

"Who knows whether we can do this later? May be we wont be able to do this later, won't be able to do this for ever... " 

This is really so valid thought too... Because no one can say what will happen for us tomorrow... Simply we can make ourself think this is the best time to do it and we will do this now itself.. :D But I feel myself as the most confused person how to live today..